Let’s Talk Sex


A reader recently asked me “…is sex about lower vibrations…?” For the most part I’ve not gotten into the topic of sex on TRANSITIONS before because so much else has been going on. That plus I don’t want to get into all the left brain techniques of Eastern Tantra practices because I find it boring, polarized and old lower world 3D-ish in its methods at this point. But I feel that way about many different old lower world 3D Eastern/Western esoteric/occult teachings for the simple reason that we are rapidly evolving beyond them.

Now that I’ve possibly insulted some readers, let me quickly add that I was a natural Tantrist way back in the day when I was sexually active. Now this is no different than being born a natural psychic or natural clairvoyant or remembering some of your “past lives” in my opinion. In most cases, people who have these types of abilities do so because they’ve trained and/or are an Initiate from usually more than just one past life. They simply carry their trainings and abilities from their past life/lives (which are really simultaneous lives and selves) into this current life and time, so they appear to have certain natural abilities. The truth is that they worked very hard to learn  and/or master certain ancient esoteric wisdom teachings and abilities from their  “past” lives; they’re simply integrated into this current self and are used in this life and timeline.

We have our very own personal library of vast knowledge and  array of abilities from all of our other or “past” life selves at our current disposal.

The current life sexual (Tantric) stories I could tell. Absolutely hilarious! Maybe some day…but probably not!

As with most all physical things, sex isn’t “good” or “bad”, but depends upon the level of consciousness and energy frequency the person is functioning on when they use the physical act of sex or intercourse. Most people existing within the old lower 3D, ego-based, polarized level of physicality and consciousness have sex or “make love” from their crotches only. Another more tactful way of saying that would be to say they function only from their first (survival) and second (sex) chakras when they have sex or “make love”, with the highest chakra they reach being the solar plexus (power) chakra. Is that “bad” or “wrong”? No, as long as both parties have consented and no one is harmed on any level. That has been, and still is for many people, what 3D polarized sex or intercourse has been; a physical act between two people who typically function ONLY from the three lowest chakras while having sex. Rather sad actually and profoundly boring after the initial hot sweaty fun wears off.

Many more people are now capable of either intentionally or unintentionally redirecting and raising their sexually generated energies from their crotches—those lower three chakras—up into the chakra that exists above the solar plexus,  the heart chakra. Again, I’m talking about people functioning within the old lower 3D polarized consciousness and energy. They can, through their 3D ego-based love for each other, move lower sexually generated energy within each of them up into their heart chakras where the sexual act and energies take on a profoundly different feel and quality. 3D polarized, ego-based “love” is felt—maybe for the first time in their lives—which helps a person profoundly…but there is so much more beyond this seemingly exalted state.

Two people functioning within the same lower polarized 3D ego-based consciousness, can also redirect the lower sexually generated energies and focus from their heart chakras and draw it further up into their Brow or Third Eye chakra. Doing this allows both people to perceive with higher vision where they can clairvoyantly perceive different things, people, events, timelines, beings, energies and so on. They can also see scenes from one or more of their past lives. And, they can also access higher states of awareness and briefly travel into other dimensions. All this because these two people decided to have sex, but redirect it from their lower three chakras up into one or more of the upper chakras!

Sex isn’t “good” or “bad”; what people choose to do with the energy sex produces is the real issue. Humans can use physical sex to procreate, or they can use physical sex to create. What they choose to create is another story altogether, and I won’t get into the Dark side of intentionally using sex to create in this post.

Two people can use sexually generated energy (+ and – charges) to propel their consciousness into higher chakras, higher states and dimensions and move outside of linear 3D space time. Or, people can have lower chakra only hot n’ heavy, sweaty monkey sex which can be great fun too. 😉  The truth is that we have choice about how we use sex and sexually generated energies and the higher consciousness and  perceptions it produces in us. No higher or lower, no right or wrong, just individual choice as to which level (chakra/chakras) they want to have their sexual energies travel to each time they have sex or make love or get high or get really out there from it. I’ve done it all and more because there is always more because there’s so much more to each of us as evolving spiritual beings.

With the ascension process and the dimensional shift into 5D (fifth dimensional) state of consciousness and being, obviously humans,  their chakra system, consciousness, sex and everything else is and will continue evolving and expanding greatly. This is why I stressed the distinction between old lower 3D, ego-based, polarized humans having sex (lower chakra or higher chakra) or making love, because this whole sex or Tantric energy business goes a lot further than just two polarized people having physical 3D sex together!

Eventually, individuals reach a point where they alone (without the need or desire for a physical, external partner) can either intentionally move up into higher chakra awareness at will, and/or they simply reside up there in their upper chakras in a state of higher consciousness and energy permanently. Hence the term ascension. They’ve climbed the alchemical energy ladder that is their spine and chakras and now exist vibrationally within higher levels of being. They do not need an external physical partner or other half because they’ve integrated their opposite sex past life selves and other polarized energies within them and now exist as an integrated and unified whole being (+, −, and  finally that third unified point ▲ ) They house within them their own Soul Mate selves and are unified beings individually.

When a non-polarized, integrated, unified, higher frequency ascended human encounters another non-polarized, integrated, unified, higher frequency  ascended being… what do you think happens or could happen? They certainly don’t need to have physical sex at this point even to “make love”. Just knowing that the other person exists at this ascended 5D state is a huge High Heart, sex, making love fest! Instead of having two polarized people emotionally and physically needing to join to activate sexually generated energies to create, they can do that and much more individually without touching anyone. Put two or more of these types of ascended, unified, High Heart conscious people together and very easily and quickly they can Consciously Create plus Co-Create just about anything. (Yeah I’m talking about creating the New 5D-based Earth reality and much more.)

I’ve had High Heart love-making exchanged from a hug at the heart level with a person (and also with non-physical, higher dimensional Beings) whose frequency matched and/or was  faster, higher than mine at the time. I’ve also had sexual energies literally spark, flow and arc between myself and a male just from intentionally standing within his auric field and never physically touching each other. He spooked and ran before I could explain what was happening unfortunately, but that certainly wasn’t the first time I’ve spooked an unaware physical human male with higher frequency sexual energies!

It should be obvious that sexual energy is what we do with it, what we use it for and why, and to which energetic level we intentionally direct it within ourselves. Sex and/or love-making will take on these higher qualities for far more people due to the Ascension Process and compressed consciousness evolution. Increasing numbers of people can and will do lovely, beautiful, High Heart creations as they continue evolving, perceiving, and feeling and loving so much more than before. Enjoy and use all the many wondrous energetic steps and levels if you are having physical sex and/or love-making with another person. Intentionally pull the energy up into your heart chakra, then even higher into your High Heart which is above it, then further up into your Brow chakra to see and remember what all you really are and so much more. ♥


August 11, 2010

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17 thoughts on “Let’s Talk Sex

  1. It sound perfectly true and logical what you are saying and I totally agree . 🙂 I was definetly looking at this from the old 3D perspective but also I thought it was something going on at a higher level.

    Thanks so much for being so patient and answering this questions cause I am a little younger (23) and I started being aware of this big transformation about a year ago so therefore I’m not very familiar with all this stuff :). Also i guess this subject goes with the age so I thank you for sharing from your higher experience. 🙂

    Love and Light

  2. Sex is something I have had an issue with for a very long time. I never get aroused, have not since I was 21 years old. Everything else would work fine though. After I had my last child at the age of 37, well its all gone now! I have no interest what so ever. The funny thing is I don’t miss it, I rarely think about it, its not important at all for me…and this has been around the time of all the symptoms too….is this something that can happen amongst all this?

  3. “Sex is something I have had an issue with for a very long time. I never get aroused, have not since I was 21 years old. Everything else would work fine though. After I had my last child at the age of 37, well its all gone now! I have no interest what so ever. The funny thing is I don’t miss it, I rarely think about it, its not important at all for me…and this has been around the time of all the symptoms too….is this something that can happen amongst all this?”


    3D version– Females hormonal levels fluctuate much more so than males. Add to this giving birth to a child/children and the hormonal levels–and consciousness, emotions and focus etc.–change dramatically too for many women, and often the sex drive takes a backseat or falls off all together for many women.

    5D version– The hormones (in females and males) are created by our endocrine glands (pituitary, pineal, thymus, ovaries, testicles etc.) which are intimately connected to our Chakra system. As we evolve via the Ascension Process our shift, focus, biology, consciousness, chakra system and endocrine systems are changing dramatically. The difference between what we used to call “having sex” or “making love” won’t be ANYTHING similar to what it was prior to our living the ascension/evolutionary process!

    Believe it or not, the current insanity by certain political figures about birth control for women etc. is Team Dark trying to use old religious beliefs to further limit and control not only females but males as well, from evolving beyond the need for any types of contraceptives at all. Thanks to the current Ascension Process, females and males both will have the conscious ability to either procreate, become pregnant, or not. It will become a conscious decision by both the female and male as to whether or not they desire to have physical sex with the intention of creating a baby. When people are consciously at this level of awareness and Conscious Creator-ship, the level of souls they’ll attract to incarnate will be amazingly high. ♥

    Also, 5D people will be able to experience exchanging Love/Light (what we used to call “sex” or “making love” in 3D) with another person in VERY different ways than only through the physical sex organs. Heart “sex” or energy exchanges (what I mean when I use my term Heart Hugs) will become very common where two people merge or connect from both of their High Hearts to show and share their Love and respect with another.


  4. My marriage dissolved right after 911 and I have not had sex since my ex. Their has been two evolved men in those years I have been attracted to and they both ran. I feel my higher self is blocking me but I don’t understand why. Am I ever having sex again.

  5. Hi Denise dear,

    I sent you an email just recently about the same topic. But with the current energies right now… I am not quite sure if you had that rare chance to read it just yet. If you can… let me know your thoughts. If not then… wish we could talk some more telepathically.

    Take good care of yourself Denise. Love you & your efforts. ♥♡♥

    Lou Ann

  6. Lou Ann,

    Hopefully I’ll be able to respond to your email tomorrow. Thanks for understanding that I do get swamped with work, writing, Comments, emails, Ascension etc. and can’t always get to everything and everyone. January 2012 has been so intense and I’m trying to get things done but take care of my body too…which I’ve ignored for years to get this writing work done at the correct time/times over the years.


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